{"id":9983,"date":"2025-07-29T15:59:00","date_gmt":"2025-07-29T22:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/?p=9983"},"modified":"2026-01-20T17:05:30","modified_gmt":"2026-01-21T00:05:30","slug":"im","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/im\/","title":{"rendered":"Improve Spiritual Lives"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"9983\" class=\"elementor elementor-9983\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e631c7d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"e631c7d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d61bc9d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d61bc9d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Improving Our Spiritual Lives<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-09bba92 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"09bba92\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h6>Through the Eyes of a Gifted Engineer<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f0d54cc elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f0d54cc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"220\" data-end=\"353\"><strong data-start=\"220\" data-end=\"248\">Ecclesiastes 10:10 (NIV)<\/strong><br data-start=\"248\" data-end=\"251\" \/><em data-start=\"251\" data-end=\"353\">\u201cIf the ax is dull and its edge unsharpened, more strength is needed, but skill will bring success.\u201d<\/em><\/p><p data-start=\"355\" data-end=\"440\"><strong data-start=\"355\" data-end=\"379\">Proverbs 27:17 (NIV)<\/strong><br data-start=\"379\" data-end=\"382\" \/><em data-start=\"382\" data-end=\"440\">\u201cAs iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.\u201d<\/em><\/p><p data-start=\"442\" data-end=\"646\">\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35daa28 e-grid e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"35daa28\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fcb9c52 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"fcb9c52\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"567\" height=\"567\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/freedom.png?fit=567%2C567&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-medium_large size-medium_large wp-image-9991\" alt=\"freedom rider\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/freedom.png?w=567&amp;ssl=1 567w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/freedom.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/freedom.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/freedom.png?resize=12%2C12&amp;ssl=1 12w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/freedom.png?resize=75%2C75&amp;ssl=1 75w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/freedom.png?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 567px) 100vw, 567px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-831b6c2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"831b6c2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"442\" data-end=\"646\">In life, we can learn from our mistakes, our successes, and also from others.<br data-start=\"519\" data-end=\"522\" \/>There are many things we do repeatedly every day, but slight changes in those routines can significantly impact the outcome.<\/p><p data-start=\"648\" data-end=\"1034\">For example, I drive to work every day. On the surface, this is a repetitive and mundane task. Since I\u2019m generally bored by mindless repetition, I look for ways to make such tasks more engaging. Some things I do include: listening to music, talking to ChatGPT, praying (with my eyes open, of course), listening to audiobooks, planning my next event, or trying to solve a recent problem.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ffadb8e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ffadb8e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"1036\" data-end=\"1345\">One of these \u201cdiversions\u201d I use to break the monotony is <strong data-start=\"1093\" data-end=\"1108\">hypermiling<\/strong>\u2014the practice of trying to get the highest MPG (miles per gallon) on a drive. It\u2019s about improving fuel efficiency and squeezing out every last bit of potential, kind of like getting the final squeeze from a nearly empty toothpaste tube.<\/p><p data-start=\"1347\" data-end=\"1663\">No matter what profession we\u2019re in, we\u2019re often trained to improve products and processes\u2014to optimize while also considering trade-offs like cost, complexity, or long-term impact. Many of us begin to look at the world through that lens. Some people call this &#8220;the value of experience&#8221; or &#8220;the school of hard knocks.&#8221;<\/p><p data-start=\"1665\" data-end=\"2062\">So on my drive to work, I experiment with different driving styles to find out what actually helps improve fuel efficiency. Does full-throttle acceleration over a short distance improve gas mileage, since internal combustion engines are more thermally efficient at wide-open throttle due to reduced pumping losses? Or is the old advice of \u201clight on the throttle\u201d for a longer time actually better?<\/p><p data-start=\"2064\" data-end=\"2446\">To save you some suspense, I\u2019ve measured the results: light acceleration over a longer period gives me about <strong data-start=\"2173\" data-end=\"2200\">20% better fuel economy<\/strong> in my hybrid vehicle compared to short bursts of heavy acceleration. Either way, I still get to and from work\u2014but the small decisions I make along the way affect both the trip&#8217;s efficiency and secondary outcomes, like how often I need to refuel.<\/p><p data-start=\"2448\" data-end=\"2510\">So, what does all this have to do with our <strong data-start=\"2491\" data-end=\"2509\">spiritual life<\/strong>?<\/p><p data-start=\"2512\" data-end=\"2601\">Yesterday, a close friend of mine said something that caught my attention:<\/p><blockquote data-start=\"2603\" data-end=\"2689\"><p data-start=\"2605\" data-end=\"2689\"><strong data-start=\"2605\" data-end=\"2689\">\u201cPrayer must have a strategy. Love must have a boundary. Faith must be refined.\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote><p data-start=\"2691\" data-end=\"2860\">The second and third parts\u2014about love and faith\u2014resonated immediately. Profound yet simple reminders. But the first part, <em data-start=\"2813\" data-end=\"2845\">\u201cPrayer must have a strategy,\u201d<\/em> gave me pause.<\/p><p data-start=\"2862\" data-end=\"3030\">Up to that point, I had often prayed with an end goal in mind, not a strategy. That statement challenged me to begin thinking about what it means to pray strategically.<\/p><p data-start=\"3032\" data-end=\"3284\">It\u2019s something new for me, and something I plan to work on. Just as I wouldn\u2019t build a house without a blueprint, or cook a meal without a recipe or meal plan, I believe God is showing me that my prayer life can also benefit from a deliberate strategy.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1bde7ac elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1bde7ac\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"3286\" data-end=\"3327\">Some guiding questions that came to mind:<\/p><p>&#8212; What is the goal? \u00a0<\/p><p data-start=\"3330\" data-end=\"3347\">&#8212; Who is involved? \u00a0<\/p><p data-start=\"3330\" data-end=\"3347\">&#8212; What are the obstacles or strongholds?<\/p><p data-start=\"3330\" data-end=\"3347\">&#8212; What does the Bible say I should pray for?<\/p><p data-start=\"3455\" data-end=\"3484\">&#8212; When and where should I pray?<\/p><p data-start=\"3487\" data-end=\"3558\">&#8212; How do I adjust my approach based on new insight or spiritual feedback?<\/p><p data-start=\"3560\" data-end=\"3719\">This idea came through a simple conversation with another believer\u2014proof that even small discussions or adjustments can lead to significant spiritual outcomes.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-696f76f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"696f76f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>In life, we grow through our mistakes, our victories, and especially through our interactions with others. There are many things we repeat every day, but intentional, Spirit-led changes\u2014no matter how small\u2014can dramatically shape our future.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Improving Our Spiritual Lives Through the Eyes of a Gifted Engineer Ecclesiastes 10:10 (NIV)\u201cIf the ax is dull and its edge unsharpened, more strength is needed, but skill will bring success.\u201d Proverbs 27:17 (NIV)\u201cAs iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.\u201d \u00a0 In life, we can learn from our mistakes, our successes, and also from others.There are many things we do repeatedly every day, but slight changes in those routines can significantly impact the outcome. For example, I drive to work every day. On the surface, this is a repetitive and mundane task. Since I\u2019m generally bored by mindless repetition, I look for ways to make such tasks more engaging. Some things I do include: listening to music, talking to ChatGPT, praying (with my eyes open, of course), listening to audiobooks, planning my next event, or trying to solve a recent problem. One of these \u201cdiversions\u201d I use to break the monotony is hypermiling\u2014the practice of trying to get the highest MPG (miles per gallon) on a drive. It\u2019s about improving fuel efficiency and squeezing out every last bit of potential, kind of like getting the final squeeze from a nearly empty toothpaste tube. No matter what profession we\u2019re in, we\u2019re often trained to improve products and processes\u2014to optimize while also considering trade-offs like cost, complexity, or long-term impact. Many of us begin to look at the world through that lens. Some people call this &#8220;the value of experience&#8221; or &#8220;the school of hard knocks.&#8221; So on my drive to work, I experiment with different driving styles to find out what actually helps improve fuel efficiency. Does full-throttle acceleration over a short distance improve gas mileage, since internal combustion engines are more thermally efficient at wide-open throttle due to reduced pumping losses? Or is the old advice of \u201clight on the throttle\u201d for a longer time actually better? To save you some suspense, I\u2019ve measured the results: light acceleration over a longer period gives me about 20% better fuel economy in my hybrid vehicle compared to short bursts of heavy acceleration. Either way, I still get to and from work\u2014but the small decisions I make along the way affect both the trip&#8217;s efficiency and secondary outcomes, like how often I need to refuel. So, what does all this have to do with our spiritual life? Yesterday, a close friend of mine said something that caught my attention: \u201cPrayer must have a strategy. Love must have a boundary. Faith must be refined.\u201d The second and third parts\u2014about love and faith\u2014resonated immediately. Profound yet simple reminders. But the first part, \u201cPrayer must have a strategy,\u201d gave me pause. Up to that point, I had often prayed with an end goal in mind, not a strategy. That statement challenged me to begin thinking about what it means to pray strategically. It\u2019s something new for me, and something I plan to work on. Just as I wouldn\u2019t build a house without a blueprint, or cook a meal without a recipe or meal plan, I believe God is showing me that my prayer life can also benefit from a deliberate strategy. Some guiding questions that came to mind: &#8212; What is the goal? \u00a0 &#8212; Who is involved? \u00a0 &#8212; What are the obstacles or strongholds? &#8212; What does the Bible say I should pray for? &#8212; When and where should I pray? &#8212; How do I adjust my approach based on new insight or spiritual feedback? This idea came through a simple conversation with another believer\u2014proof that even small discussions or adjustments can lead to significant spiritual outcomes. In life, we grow through our mistakes, our victories, and especially through our interactions with others. There are many things we repeat every day, but intentional, Spirit-led changes\u2014no matter how small\u2014can dramatically shape our future.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9991,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[258],"tags":[787,788,786,785,792,791,790,789,784,783],"class_list":["post-9983","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-food-for-thoughts","tag-christianliving","tag-continuousimprovement","tag-everydaylessons","tag-faithinaction","tag-fuelforthesoul","tag-hypermilingandfaith","tag-ironsharpensiron","tag-learningthroughlife","tag-prayerstrategy","tag-spiritualgrowth"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/freedom.png?fit=567%2C567&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9983","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9983"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9983\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9999,"href":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9983\/revisions\/9999"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9991"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9983"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9983"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/milkandhoneysolutions.ca\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9983"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}